"A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes."
I think to become HAPPY.
While I was in Russia I read a book, that asked me to choose a life motto, after much concentration, thought, and study, I chose.
"BECOME YOUR CALLING."
This means, become all that you were meant to become.
It means, don't quite trying.
It means, you have a purpose. you are loved.
It means, others are counting on you.
It means.. that I must change ALL of my thoughts, to match my destination.
If I want to be happy, I must think happy.
If I want to be strong, I must think strong.
If I want to be needed, I must think I am useful.
"A man is but the product of his thoughts" ... and my thoughts are all about becoming better.
I don't have my life together.
but that doesn't mean the sun isn't shining somewhere. :)